Advantages and Disadvantages

I am stay at home wife with no children yet but we try to have one but only God knows. It's 36 months already from our wedding and my family and friend keep on asking me these questions... and I am very tired of their questions. When is your plan to get pregnant? Are you pregnant now? and many more Oh my! to be honest when my friend told me to get pregnant and to have a baby right away because it's fun. In my mind I am thinking of my experiences when I was a Nanny few years ago. Yeah it's really fun because the one was crying, while the other one was singing. To have a baby maybe is a great experience when you are prepared and there's advanatages and disadvantages to have a baby.

Advantages:
1. You can see your own baby.
2. Fun.
3. Some says it inspires to both parent.
4. They enjoy their babies laughter.
5. Have determination to work hard and earn a living.
6. You will develop the character of becoming very patient or else you will become a patient.
7. Many more you can add if you want...________


Disadvantages:
1. You can not sleep good in the night when your baby is crying.
2. Baby will get most of your time especially when they are small.
3. You can not go someplace unless you will bring your baby.
4. You can not concentrate whatever you want to do because someone will get your attention.
5. Many more, you can add some more if you want...____________

But for me,to have a baby is blessing from God and a great sacrifice and character development to both parent hahahaa. As what I've said you will become patient to your son/ daughter or else you will become a patient in the hospital.

To all my friend who keep on asking and sound like demanding me to have a baby. I want to say that instead of telling me, why not praying for us to have one.

By the way, have a good night.